Friday, October 16, 2015

All of My Years


It's taken me all of my years to learn the way to support our friends and loves ones when they're going through a challenging time in relationship is to support both parties. We do not bolster the support we give our loved one by tearing anyone else down. Our judgement of the other person in our friends' situation, in sneaky little ways, can be judgement on our friend. For sincere and loving support, simply listen to your friend, truly listening is the greatest gift. If you want to offer anything back, reflect back to them what you heard. If your friend asks you for your advice or feedback, there are thousands of ways to give it with love for all involved.

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